What a strange world writers inhabit.
We can live in a different country to someone who means so much to our work – an editor, an agent, a reader – have so much communication, even enter a contract with them, yet never actually meet them. It can all be rather, well…
…odd.
But then writing is an especially odd profession. It’s solitary in a way that many jobs could never be. In between the parts that actually involve getting together with other people, there are hours / days / weeks / months / years - of typing away by yourself.
So the trick is not to go mad. Well not to go madder still, anyway.
This means community is important. Not just as a lifeline to the normal world of friends, family, mortgages, bills, grocery shopping, etc. I mean the community of other writers, too. The people who share similar struggles, understand your problems and have links, tips and other friends they can send your way.
This is where our modern lives really come into their own. With the Internet and entire digital worlds available to us all, I can't encourage you enough to make sure you're plugged in.
Twitter, Facebook, Query Tracker, Absolute Write, SCBWI, this very blog ... these are just some of the ways I keep in touch with writers, editors, agents, etc, and then meet new writers, new editors, new colleagues. There are writing competitions (Writers & Artists run them, and Writer's Digest have small ones every two months), writer retreats, conferences, online 'webinars' (I don’t like this word…), and every other combination imaginable, and all out there to make sure of one thing:
You don't go it alone.
Don't go mad. Don't get lonely. And most importantly, don't ignore the support, inspiration, encouragement and love of people who will care about you and your writing. Some of them you may never meet, but they’ll share your successes and read every word, either because they’re writers or they just love your writing.
And you should care about their careers, too. To isolate one’s self from all the shared wisdom and experience of the many, many writers out there would – to put it simply – be dumb. Beyond just disadvantaging yourself by being outside the loop, you’re also missing chances to improve the quality of your work.
When interacting with other writers, you should remember most are doing it for the love, not the money. So they understand. When you’re getting a bit too much into the worlds you create, who's going to understand that? Other writers, that’s who. And those people who love to read. Community is the life support you need to make it in the tough world of books.
Local libraries and bookshops are good places to poke around for writing groups in the real world. And online – well, if you’re reading this, you’re already plugged in, aren't you?
If you’re on Twitter, check out the hashtags #PubTip and #AskAgent. These ongoing conversations house a lot of expert advice – the first from professionals in the publishing industry (often to do with submissions and writers’ attitudes) and the second from literary agents, who will answer questions submitted by anyone, often at pre-appointed times using the tag. They’re some of the best solid examples I know of the writing / publishing community and how it can help individual writers.
I hope this all encourages you to open up to others about your goals and your work. One of the very first posts I wrote over on my own blog was about ‘The Shame of Writing,’ and trying to encourage myself to be braver and more open, and to get active in writing circles. I’m so glad I did – so much has come from it. You might as well try.
Next week I’ll be talking about editing. Won’t that be fun?
Simon P. Clark
Simon grew up in the UK before moving to rural Japan to teach English for three years after graduating. From there he moved to New Jersey, USA, where he works as a writer. His first children's book, EREN, is represented by Molly Ker Hawn of The Bent Agency. He blogs about writing and publishing at http://www.simonpclark.com
Simon, I too have not joined a community near me and have spent months, alone for at least 10 hours a day, writing and not wanting to socialise too much, so as not to disturb the flow of work. It was painful occasionally and then I chanced upon a quote from Hemingway from his Nobel acceptance speech in 1954 -'Writing, at its best, is a lonely life. Organizations for writers palliate the writer's loneliness but I doubt if they improve his writing. He grows in public stature as he sheds his loneliness and often his work deteriorates. For he does his work alone and if he is a good enough writer he must face eternity, or the lack of it, each day.'
Ofcourse Hemingway committed suicide in 1961, presumably from depression, so solitude had its price. But perhaps one has to just accept that writing is often a solitary world.
I am very interested in the upcoming edits article- do you excel and checklist, listen to feedback, or ignore it and follow your gut instinct?
A brilliant post Simon. I thoroughly enjoyed it and like the other blogs a constant reminder that there isn't just me out here trying to get the words onto the pages etc. It seems like a long and arduous task at times but a good pep talk every now and then is just what I need. Plus a kick up the bottom too.
Anyone will tell you I am a huge fan of the way this particular site operates. You don't have to spend weeks reading other people's work, you aren't separated off into genres which then form little cliques and divide the community, and anyone can drop in, ask a question, receive advice (or just a bit of moral support) without having to impart their life story first. Most of the questions asked in the community relate to all writing across genre and medium therefore anyone and everyone can get involved in the conversation. Few sites are designed to be so inclusive.
And I am most grateful because I seem fated never to join a group in my area for one reason or another. I have belonged to writing websites before but my tutor said she personally never shares her work before the agent sees it and, with the few experiences I have of sharing work online, I tend to agree with her.
That doesn't mean I don't have beta readers. They're always lots of fun! I like to choose people who are quite unable to hold in their opinions. It saves time otherwise wasted on body language interpretation. Finding people who are tactile as well as forthright means you might get a hug after they've broken your heart!
Sadly, no hugs on W & A, but forthright opinions are not in short supply. Long may it be so :D
Looking forward to edits, Simon. Any tips on how to stop?!